My first kiss with my now long-time girlfriend was as bad as it can get.
I was rushing, nervous, and at one point, I don't know where to put my fuckin hands.
It was unforgettable for all the wrong reasons. (she knows)
But that's the thing with firsts...
You don't have to get it right.
Heck, you don't have to get it right the second time either.
Or the third.
Or the fourth.
You just have to get it going and get your hands dirty.
And no, I'm not only talking about kissing, ya dirty bastard.
I'm also talking about you.
Perfecting the first step is the biggest mistake you could do.
So let it rip and do the opposite. Don't perfect it, be bad at it, or canon ball your way into it and do your worst.
Calluses force you to go figure it out.
Now listen. If you have something that you’re scared to step into, there’s no other way but this:
Start somewhere and make as many pivots as necessary.
Trust me, it won't get easier but, you'll get better at it. (kissing gf included)
See ya,
- Johnrille